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Yes, I currently finished Sekolah Pra Nikah Salman ITB

Yes, I currently finished the whole SPN Salman ITB. The first offline batch of SPN after about 2-3 years of hiatus (and lots of online batches). Participating as a student in SPN (sekolah pra nikah, pre marital school) is a bold move, I must say. All I want is to learn and understand before I need to do it, so I don't have to learn and understand from scratch on the spot which I believe will be in the middle of chaos. Trust me, I haven't experienced much (read: no experience) but the whole process to become a steady self with a lifetime partner is chaotic (not only after that). Before I continue: No, I am not in the position to marry yet right now, but I realize that the chance to study before everything gets in the way is now.  SPN put me in a comprehension state to see everything objectively, because marriage is not only consolidating with love. Love is too subjective to be the only vessel across the non-stop turbulent ocean. You need good gears, enough supplies, skills to ma...